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Find
someone new at your school (or work)
and give them a welcome tour. Especially
as the new school term begins, there
will be many people who have no clue
where they are supposed to be, or
how they are supposed to get there.
Give them an insider's guide to the
best hang outs, the cleanest toilets,
the food to avoid in the cafeteria,
etc
Offer to baby-sit
for free once a month. You
have no idea how desperate parents
are to find good, cheap babysitting
so that they can get out every so
often. Find a family in your church
or neighbourhood that looks like it
could use a regular break, and offer
your services free of charge.
Next time you're
buying something at a shop, pay for
the person's purchase behind you.
This takes a little courage. Try,
as anonymously as possible, to leave
as much money as necessary to cover
the next person's purchase. Say you
are at a music store: pay for your
CD, and then give an extra amount
of money to the cashier, quietly explaining
that it is to go towards the next
person in the queue's purchase. You
will get some strange looks, but you
will really bless your neighbour behind
you, and probably the cashier as well.
Find the least
popular person in your class or work.
You know, the person no one else wants
to spend any time with and take them
out for coffee and a movie. In any
social grouping there is a person
who just doesn't fit in. For whatever
reason they have been socially ostracized,
and that can be very painful. A good
way to show your love is to intentionally
spend time with them and get to know
them. You might be surprised at what
you have in common, and how easy it
can be to make a new friend.
Choose to bless
instead of curse. Talking behind
someone's back can do an incredible
amount of harm. So choose to be a
blessing in the way you speak. Before
you say anything about anyone, think
of at least one good thing to say
about them, and say that first. Cut
off any gossip or slander about someone
as soon as it starts. Pretty soon
you will become known as someone who
lifts people up instead of cutting
them down. The important thing here
is consistency.
Visit a nursing
home. Some of the most forgotten
neighbours in our world are seniors
in nursing homes. Families quiet often
don't have the time or inclination
to visit their aged relatives on a
regular basis. So take on the job.
Make a habit of dropping by a local
home to visit the residents. You will
not have a hard time finding people
to talk to, and you will almost certainly
learn some fascinating things.
Organise a "Random
Acts of Kindness" day in your
neighbourhood. Get some friends
together and pick up rubbish in a
local park, or go door to door with
a bucket of soapy water and a sponge
and offer to wash cars for free. You
can also do this at your school by
cleaning up the grounds.
Go door to door
on a prayer walk for your block.
This one takes some guts as well,
but can be combined with the Random
Acts of Kindness. Knock on each door
and ask each person if there is anything
they would like you to pray for. Some
will say no thanks. Others might want
you to pray right there on the doorstep.
Still others will give you something
to pray for later on, which you can
do on your own or at a prayer meeting.
The next time you see them, let them
know you prayed, and ask how things
turned out. Make sure that you have
authorisation from your church leader,
adequate identification and that you
go with other people - never do this
on your own.
Sponsor a child
in someone else's name. This
takes an ongoing commitment, both
to the child and to your friend, but
it is a very powerful way of showing
love. Find an organization through
which you can sponsor a child (The
Salvation Army does this, as does
World Vision, and many others.) Commit
to providing a monthly amount for
the support of a child, but do it
on behalf of a friend, so that the
information on the child's progress
goes to them (You will need their
name and address obviously). This
makes a great birthday or Christmas
gift.
Go on a hero-holiday.
There are many Christian missionaries
in the world who are working long,
hard, and unappreciated hours in the
service of God and mankind. A hero-holiday
is when you choose to spend your vacation
supporting a missionary's work instead
of simply taking leisure time. Chances
are your church will be supporting
some missionaries with whom you could
spend a week or two. If that is too
cost prohibitive, you should be able
to find a local work that you could
be involved with during your hero-holiday.
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